For the guys,when you have it all perfect wife/job/kids,why risk it when you have everything?

Well for starters there is no such thing as perfect, you are the third peron in this view you only know what you see and not what actually goes on in that household, apparently something was lacking in their relationship if not the wife would not have him under a microscope and of course there is always temptation which many don't know how to fight.